Nearly two weeks ago, a new era in American history began with the inauguration of President Barack Obama. I made a point of taking the day off to watch the entire television coverage and it was deeply moving to hear the roar of approval from the crowd when Obama took the oath and gave his inaugural speech. The television coverage lasted nearly all day and the parade went until well after darkness fell. I couldn't stay to watch the parade in its entirety because I had to go to my women's fitness class, but still, I did get to watch enough of it to get the sense of the history being made that day. I still have to pinch myself whenever I hear "President Obama" mentioned in news coverage, but still, it's a mighty good feeling to know that we're in good hands that will surely be able to guide us through this financial mess we're in. I know it's not going to happen in weeks or months, and I hope that people understand that and give the President some time to get things going through Congress. Still, things seem to be off to a promising start and although we've been warned that things are going to get worse before they get better, still, there is reason to hope that somewhere, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. My father, who was a sociology professor before his untimely death in 1961, specialized in race relations and I have come to find out that he'd be very proud of the inauguration of President Obama. Apparently, Daddy was at the forefront of fighting for civil rights before it was even an issue. Back when he was a professor at Baldwin Wallace College in Berea, OH (where I was born in 1957), some black students came to him telling him that they'd been denied access to a skating rink, which claimed it was for members only. Daddy apparently led a group of black and white students to the rink and demanded an explanation as to why some supposed "non-members" were allowed to be skating (they were all white). Well, this confrontation, it would seem, made the front page of the newspaper and infuriated the President of Baldwin Wallace, thereby ensuring that Daddy would be denied tenure there. So my family left Berea for Kent where my father took a teaching position at Kent State University, his undergraduate alma mater. Once again, my father enjoined the civil rights cause when it was discovered that some approved off-campus housing was denying blacks the right to live there, and of course, he stood up for them. He and some other young professors wrote a letter to the campus newspaper, which of course, infuriated the President of the University. I don't know if this would have led to a denial of tenure had Daddy lived long enough to earn it, but still, it makes me feel so proud to know that my father stood up for civil rights before it was even a major issue in this country. His experience in WWII apparently opened his eyes to segregation and gave him the impetus to make race relations his life's work. At times, I do feel very bereft for not having had him around while growing up, especially the more I learn about him, but I know what a good man he was and would have been had he lived long enough to raise the four of us kids.
ANOTHER BIG SNOW
2 comments:
I believe this is the first time I've seen a picture of your dad. He looks like someone I would have liked.
I think you really would have liked him, from everything that my mom has told me about him. I wish I could remember more about him than just tiny fragments from when he was still alive, but then, I was still just a toddler when he died. I was just a month past my 4th birthday at the time of his death, so it's tough for me to recall anything significant about him other than just vague shadowy memories.
Although I have long since come to accept his passing, it has left a hole in my life that can never be filled. Yes, I have a mother who I adore and who has always been there for me come what may and who is the most remarkable mom a person could ever hope to have grown up with, but not having two parents leaves a void that no one parent could ever hope to fill. My mom has done a positively remarkable job of being both mom and dad, but I still find myself feeling pangs of pain and envy whenever I see a young father with his daughter(s), like my fitness trainer and his two daughters (and two sons). That is something that will never go away, no matter how much time passes.
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