Weiner roll

I don't get it. What is it about powerful men that they feel like they have to prove their virility by either having an affair and a "love child" as a result, or they electronically send lewd or suggestive photos of themselves to admirers online? And then they think they can get away with it by covering it up and lying about it......the temerity of these guys! Especially since they are married, and I have always been one to regard an oath, as in, a marriage vow, as being a very serious affair. When a guy puts a ring on his wife's finger and says "I do" and vows to "forsake all others", he should mean it. But apparently these guys don't. They think they can fool around behind their wives backs and carry on affairs and have children with mistresses or do stupid things online and then just stand there in public and lie about it and expect the public to buy it. It's put a real black eye on politicians, since it's largely been they who have been caught in recent sex scandals. John Edwards, Arnold Schwarznegger, Anthony Weiner, Christopher Lee. David Vitter, and of course, world famous golfer Tiger Woods, who always burnished his squeaky clean family man image only to be found out as a real interloper who had many women on the side. It boggles the mind to think how many men just don't take the words "I do" seriously. I swear, if I'd ever gotten married and caught my guy doing ANYTHING of the kind, I'd be seriously tempted to castrate him and teach him a lesson. Now, lest you think I am some sort of jealous shrew of a woman, let me remind you that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! And I wouldn't blame Anthony Weiner's wife from leaving him immediately and not looking back. In fact, if I could talk to her, I would tell her to pack her bags and move as far away from her husband as possible, and to file for an immediate and unconditional divorce. Sorry, guys, but I just don't tolerate hanky-panky from a guy that is supposedly involved in a serious relationship. If he puts a ring on my finger and takes a vow before God and everyone else, he'd better damn well mean it, or else. I don't tolerate the "boys will be boys" mentality that inside every man is a boy who hasn't quite grown up yet. Well, sorry, if you're with ME, you'd BETTER be an adult. Maybe that's why, at age 54, I have not yet married. I haven't found anyone yet who displayed to me that they were truly grown up enough to be responsible. There was always some flaw that drove me to sometimes to tears, other times to fly into a fit of anger and/or impatience. I know, maybe I have high standards, but what's wrong with that? Maybe if more women held themselves to a good high standard before they accepted the ring from a man, there wouldn't be such a trail of broken hearts and scorned women whose men got caught with their pants down in a compromising situation. Let this be a lesson to everyone, men and women alike. If your partner is a little too addicted to their BlackBerry (er, CrackBerry), maybe it's time to think twice about the relationship in which you find yourself. Just a fair warning!